Interesting, it's been a long time since I'd read about the triangle and now that I am where I am in my own journey it makes me think too "what's the alternative?" I did a google search and the TED model came up but I don't like it lol. I think I would replace roles of Victim to Compassion, Bully to Accountability, and Hero to Bravery. The former (victim, bully, hero) are all fixed roles/identities, whereas the latter are actions. Also instead of splintering ourselves, we focus on seeing ourselves as a whole that's working toward a positive/productive outcome.
Interesting, it's been a long time since I'd read about the triangle and now that I am where I am in my own journey it makes me think too "what's the alternative?" I did a google search and the TED model came up but I don't like it lol. I think I would replace roles of Victim to Compassion, Bully to Accountability, and Hero to Bravery. The former (victim, bully, hero) are all fixed roles/identities, whereas the latter are actions. Also instead of splintering ourselves, we focus on seeing ourselves as a whole that's working toward a positive/productive outcome.