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Apr 5, 2022Liked by PJ “Starling”

Grateful you have shared this about a most vunerable part of your journey. Our relationship with parents, and our own children. So wonderful to see how you are finding ways to mend relationship with your estranged father, even in spirit. The Starling coming to your window resonated deeply. Loving how the Universe responds as demonstrated in your story shared here. Thank you PJ Starling.

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Apr 6, 2022Liked by PJ “Starling”

This is really beautiful and heartbreaking PJ. I am so happy that you are able to find connection with your father. I responded to another of your posts and I didn't share that my father and I have a very difficult relationship as well. We began to "heal" right before he passed from Pancreatic Cancer. I think that fact that we are changing destructive generational patterns first within ourselves and then with our children is amazing. I also believe that our fathers long for this healing and are so pleased that this type of harm ended with us. It can be so difficult to parent well when we did not have a good example but I have also found that because of the difficulty I experienced as a child I was ready to create a different life for my son. It was the best type of motivation to heal and to stop passing this type of life forward. A fresh start for our lineage and especially for the children we love. I wonder...have you heard of the Body Code / Emotion Code? I have found it to be very healing in regard to releasing held trauma- even generational trauma.

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I have had many similar experiences, so I would just answer "yes".

Yes, it is possible to heal relationships, even after they've passed. I have been doing so with all my parents 💚

Beautiful share 🙏

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